Anonymous asked: Me and my girlfriend have sex alot, should we use more than condoms to prevent her from getting pregnant?

If you are using condoms correctly and consistently every single time you have sex, your chances of pregnancy are lessened significantly. Unfortunately, the truth is that many condom users are NOT using condoms accurately. For instance, are you remembering to squeeze a drop or two of lube in the tip of the condom before putting it on? Even if it’s a pre-lubricated condom, this is one of the necessary steps to accurately applying a condom. Are you remembering to make sure that there is enough room at the tip of the condom so that “high-speed” ejaculation does not break through the condom? Are you making sure there are no air bubbles?

If you’re not confident in your ability to put on the condom 100% accurately, you may want to consider an additional means of contraceptive. Of course, every contraceptive has its pros and cons and it’s important for you and your girlfriend to consider what methods are best for both of you.

Let me know if you have any further questions!

—Kay

Anonymous asked: I know you guys are taking a break from tumblr, but i hope you see this when youre back. I have a boyfriend but these feelings wont go away. I think i like girls too. Ive always thought girls were beautiful but lately I think im figuring out that Im bi. My boyfriend is the only one who knows about these feelings but he just thinks its "like yeah thats hot you like girls". I have a couple friends who just came out to me recently too...i feel like if i say something they might think im lying.

I hope we’re not getting back to you too late! Your feelings are legitimate. Whether you are bi or you’re just curious you don’t have to feel like its not real. You should have a serious talk with your boyfriend about respecting your sexuality no matter what it is. It’s not a fantasy he can toy with. Your friends should be able to support you as well. If they are your friends then they’ll understand. Don’t stress about. It’s nothing to worry about :)

// Hey guys! We just wanted to let you know we’re gonna take a break from Tumblr for awhile//

Kay and I have both gotten really busy with our lives and can’t really spend any time on tumblr. We just wanted to let the few of you who like us know that we aren’t breaking up or anything! Just spacing ourselves from tumbr for awhile.

Have fun without us!

See ya soon!

// And she’s gone again…//

Nothin feels worse than being away from you.
Come back.